I’m ready to die — 90 -year-old teacher

Pa Moses Sowole
A retired teacher, Pa Moses Sowole, in this interview with MOTUNRAYO JOEL talks about his life and time
When and where were you born?
My name is Moses Sowole. I was born on June 7, 1927 at Iju-Ota, Ogun State.
How many siblings do you have?
I have a brother and two sisters.
Are they alive?
No, I’m the only one living, the rest are
dead. We were all very close, I miss them dearly. Our first born was
the first to die followed by the second born and then the third born, I
guess I’m the next in line.
What were the occupations of your parents?
My father was a big-time farmer in
various crops while my mother was a petty trader. I used to go with my
father regularly to the farm to do some weeding, I enjoyed the
experience. Whenever we went to the farm, we came back home early, he
didn’t like overworking himself.
Where did you have your education?
I attended Iju-Ota African Church Primary
School, Onibukun African Church Central School, St. Peters Anglican
Church School, Ake, Abeokuta, Ogun State, United Anglican Church School,
Abeokuta. I didn’t attend secondary school. That was the norm back
then, once one had completed primary school, going straight to secondary
was a matter of choice.
How are you able to remember all these names at your old age?
I have a good memory; I believe it’s a blessing from God.
After primary school, what did you do?
I decided to go into teaching; that was
is one profession that was very common at that time. My level of
intelligence gave me an edge, getting a teaching job was quite easy for
me. All the schools I applied to wanted me; It was then left for me to
make my choice. However, after my primary school, I spent some time in
the village, with the villagers and the Baale(head) of our community, I was there for three years. I was appointed as the Baale’s
interpreter. Whenever he needed someone to translate a document into
Yoruba, I was called upon. I guess I was the only one that understood
the English language in the community.
Aside being an interpreter, what else did you do?
I used to join the villagers in farming
and hunting. I loved the thrill I got from hunting. Though I was never
attacked by any animal because I was smart about it. Whenever we went
hunting, I would walk in the middle, not at the front or the back. I
used my western education to outsmart the villagers.
What did you like about hunting?
It was an interesting adventure and the
Europeans call it a game, which is very true. The act of killing animals
excites me. I also liked eating the animals I killed.
How old were you then?
I was about 16 or 17 years old. We used to use catapult to kill animals not guns which is what is used now.
What was the biggest animal you single-handedly killed?
That was a rat. (Smiles).
After spending time in the village, what next did you do?
I relocated to the city; I then applied
for a teaching job at Onibukun African Central School, Abeokuta, one of
the schools I attended. I taught in several other schools before
marriage came into the picture.
Since teaching was one of the most common professions, was it your passion?
Yes, teaching is still my passion.
Which college did you attend to train as a teacher?
I attended Teachers’ Training College, Ifako, Lagos.
How old were you when you got married?
I got married at the age of 23. I know
youths of today may say that was early, but getting married early was
the norm back then. I saw no reason why I shouldn’t get married early
when I had a good job. Some of my friends who weren’t employed had
gotten married; it made me feel intimidated.
How did you meet your first wife?
We met at a gathering, then we courted
for two years before getting married, but we separated a long time ago
because we were not compatible.
How many children do you have?
I have 11 children; five from my first wife, five from my second wife and one from a woman I didn’t marry.
When did you get married to your second wife?
I got married to her in 1966. We met at
one of the schools where I taught. I was transferred to a school to
become the head master. She was a student at the school.
What qualities attracted you to her?
I was moved by her level of intelligence.
She was very brilliant. I told myself she would make a perfect help
mate. I don’t like a lady who is slow. I’m grateful to God for bringing
her into my life. She has a wonderful heart and I say this with all
humility.
You said your wife was your student, that means you are much older her?
Yes, I’m’ 90 and she is 60.
Why did you choose to get married to someone much younger?
It wasn’t intentional; I was attracted to her irrespective of her age.
What has kept your marriage strong till today?
I think it is because she understands me.
It took a while though before we reached that level, the quarrels we
had strengthened our relationship. There is no way our marriage could
have lasted this long without us understanding ourselves. Even when we
quarrel, we forgive ourselves easily. I love her dearly, she doesn’t get
upset easily, and she is a jovial person.
What challenges did you encounter in your marriage?
The most challenging period was when I
brought another woman into my house. It all started when I was posted to
Owode division near Sagamu to teach in one of the schools there. I met a
lady and we had a relationship, one thing led to another and she got
pregnant for me. When she informed me that she was pregnant, I felt
compassion for my child so I brought her into my house. It was only God
that kept me, if my wife wasn’t determined to see me live; I would have
been long gone. I had two or three sicknesses that could have killed me,
but my wife stood by my side and spent almost all the money she had.
Where are all your children?
One is in Canada, the rest are scattered all over the country. All my children are married and are doing well.
How much was your salary back then?
Teachers were not paid well, despite my
level of intelligence and even when my superiors commended my good work,
they did it verbally; it wasn’t accompanied with salary increase.
Almost all the students I taught usually did well in external
examinations, but like I said, good work was not rewarded financially.
Sometimes I feel I would have been better in life if only I followed my
instincts to further my studies. There were times I wanted to leave
teaching to study but my superiors refused; they didn’t want to let me
go.
Which activities did you enjoy as a youth?
I enjoyed fishing; it was one of my hobbies. I also enjoyed hunting.
Did you retire as a teacher?
No, I moved out of the education sector.
However, crossing over to another profession was a bit challenging
because my boss didn’t want to give me my testimonial; I had wanted to
further my studies. When things got out of hand, I resigned and applied
to another school and they gave me employment, the name of the school
was National Primary School, Abule Ijesa. I forgot about furthering my
studies. After some time, I realised that the money I was earning as a
teacher wasn’t enough, so I applied to Guinness Company and I was given
employment as a trainee accountant. My nickname was Baba Guinness. The
paid me quite well. I earned shift allowance, night allowance, etc.
There were so many benefits. I became unlucky one day and lost my job. I
was implicated by a colleague who alleged that I took a client’s money
when he was the one that took the money from me. After investigations,
the management of Guinness decided to sack both of us, sadly, that was
how I lost my job. Ever since then, I’ve been doing one little business
or the other.
How did you train all your children?
My wife was of great support. She helped
me financially, atimes when I was low in cash; she would use her money
to offset the bills.
How do you keep yourself busy?
I sleep and eat. These have become my hobbies.
What time do you wake up?
I wake up whenever I like, I don’t have a fixed time because I have no master, and sleep is my master.
What is your favourite food?
I think it is moimoi but it’s not my favourite food. I just enjoy eating it, I can eat moimoi alone for a whole month.
Do you still have friends?
Most of my friends are dead, just two of them left. I hardly visit them though, because I can’t walk.
Will you consider yourself as someone who is fulfilled?
Yes, I have so many reasons to thank God.
It is only an ingrate who would think otherwise; that I’m alive today,
strong and healthy is by God’s grace. So many times, my enemies tried to
take my life but God destroyed their plans.
Are there things you hope to accomplish before you die?
I don’t think of anything, at my age what
can I do? Sometimes, when my children want to organise celebrations for
me, I tell them not to, there is no need of that. I know deep within me
that I have limited time left here on earth.
So you are ready to die?
Yes I am anytime, when God says its time,
I’m ready. As a Christian, one must not say I won’t leave this earth,
our home is in heaven.
What is your advice to young couples?
Couples should marry based on
understanding. Marriage should be based on understanding not
materialistic things. If a woman marries someone that understands her,
when she does something wrong, her partner would have the heart to
forgive her because he understands her. Understanding is key in
marriage, it makes a happy marriage.
What is your favourite drink?
I used to be a drunk, if you put a lorry
load of Guinness before me, I would finish it before the end of the
month. My weakness for alcohol was that bad. Something made me change.
One night I visited one of the clubs I belonged to, when I got there,
they offered me a drink, but I opted for water, the next day I woke with
an inability to urinate and pass out faeces. It couldn’t have been the
water that caused it because water aids digestion, I realised that it
was an accumulated problem caused by continuous intake of alcohol. I was
taken to a nearby hospital but they couldn’t solve the problem, I was
then transferred to Ayinke General Hospital and they too transferred me
to Lagos University Teaching Hospital. When I got there, they didn’t
have a free bed. I was then transferred to a private hospital. After
spending 24 days in the hospital, I became better. It was God that
healed me because for 24 days I couldn’t urinate or pass feces.
As a retired teacher, what is your take on the education sector now?
The education sector is poor,
certificates are issued out freely, and students don’t work for it any
longer. On the streets, you see people carrying fake certificates.
Parents prefer paying bribes instead of allowing their children follow
the right path. Even in our schools, teachers who can’t express
themselves are employed, things generally have gone bad.
What is your advice to the government?
We should go back to the drawing board. I
also I think there are too many decision-makers in the sector, yet
these people are there for selfish reasons not for the sake of our
children. Bribery also seems to be common nowadays but in my time, if a
parent offered bribe, their child would be disqualified.
How do you keep yourself fit?
I do exercise on my bed because I can’t walk. I throw punches in the air as if I’m boxing someone.
What has kept you strong till date?
I would say God, I don’t have any secret.